. >> we would be in a deficit situation by -- yeah. probably $1,500 to $1,800. in the short term we need to create income. >> john thinks it is diane who has to step up and find a job. any job. their marriage therapist agrees. >> i think the underlying issue for you, diane, i think there's a reluctance on your part to do something that is beneath you. you know, you're highly educated. you have a lot of experience. and i think there's this bit of inner snob in you. >> i mean, if you were to get a full-time job tomorrow that only paid what i'm earning at the running company, you know what? we would pay our bills. >> we would? >> we would pay our bills. >> for diane, john's sudden assertiveness appears to be a wake-up call. >> i was hoping that things would come together sooner, but they haven't. so here we sit and, you know, i have to grow up. i have to face some very hard facts and make some hard choices. >> see how it goes. >> yeah. >> hopefully it's very temporary. >> john has taken on an additional part-time job with an office cleaning company. diane agrees to